We have two close family members that fall into the pathological lying category.
I went my whole life without realizing the older one was a liar. Funny the day you realize someone has been a liar your entire life it changes everything about the past.
Now I am wondering if the older one taught the middle-aged one how to lie. It is quite interesting when you think about it. What are the odds for there to be two in the same family in such close relation that are both pathological liars?
You have to love it when the pathological liar never admits they are wrong and NEVER says I am sorry. Instead, they just makeup lies about you and change the subject of the conversation. I guess it makes them feel better about themselves and their low self-esteem.
When you have two doing this together it is like a lethal weapon to everyone around them. Some of us are wise to what is going on others just play along and some chose to ignore the whole thing and pretend it will just go away.
It is always better to stay far away from these type people and have no contact at all with them because nothing good ever comes of their lies.
Thanksgiving is the time of year we get together with family and friends laugh, tell bad jokes and eat until we are about to pop.
The great smell of food though out the house, every kind of desert one could imagine.
That look on a small child’s face as they grab a cookie and run and everyone knows the children are having a sugar rush.
I will eat a few of my favorite things without counting the carbs. Last year I skipped my favorite things but this year I will get a few bites of them. I have come too far in the last year to screw it up now.
This is the time of year we are thankful for everyone and everything in our lives and we are grateful for the time we have with each other.
May you all have a wonderful Thanksgiving. Drive safely and be careful.
A friend of mine sent me this via text message on Monday. She knew what kind of day I was having and she thought this might help.
This quote really made me stop and think about a lot of the people in my life. Sometimes no matter how hard we try or how much effort we put into our relationships with other people it is never enough.
Relationships are a 50/50 deal it takes two people to make it work.This is the same in every situation from mothers and daughters, fathers and sons, sisters and even friends. One person can not make any of these relationships work by themselves you both have to put forth some effort to make the relationship work.
The negative people in your life will drain you and make you feel horrible about yourself even though you have done nothing wrong. The way they view their life will rub off on you.
The positive people in your life will make you feel good about yourself and you will be happy. In return, you will spread that happiness around and pass it onto others.
I have come to the conclusion that I need a lot more positive people in my life.