A two faced person could be a friend or a family member.
Anyone who talks to you behind someone else’s back and befriends that person at the same time will do the same thing to you behind your back.
They thrive on creating friction between people. Every day they have to think of something bad to talk about to someone else because this is what gets their adrenaline pumping.
Two faced people can not be trusted because all the do is make up lies at the expense of others just to get attention. Your life has to be pretty boring to want to hurt others so badly you would do this.
No one needs people like this in their life the drama is not worth it.
People who enjoy doing good deeds do this out of the goodness of their heart and never say a word about it. It is second nature to them because it is part of who they are and they are not looking for praise from anyone.
People who do good deeds for others and tell other people about it are doing it for self-gratification. They need everyone to know all the good things they have done they are looking for praise.
You should never brag or boast when you do something nice for someone if you do then you are doing it for all the wrong reasons.
We have two close family members that fall into the pathological lying category.
I went my whole life without realizing the older one was a liar. Funny the day you realize someone has been a liar your entire life it changes everything about the past.
Now I am wondering if the older one taught the middle-aged one how to lie. It is quite interesting when you think about it. What are the odds for there to be two in the same family in such close relation that are both pathological liars?
You have to love it when the pathological liar never admits they are wrong and NEVER says I am sorry. Instead, they just makeup lies about you and change the subject of the conversation. I guess it makes them feel better about themselves and their low self-esteem.
When you have two doing this together it is like a lethal weapon to everyone around them. Some of us are wise to what is going on others just play along and some chose to ignore the whole thing and pretend it will just go away.
It is always better to stay far away from these type people and have no contact at all with them because nothing good ever comes of their lies.